Thursday, October 20, 2011

The Rat Race

On November 21st, I am returning back to work. Thankfully, it is part-time (MWF), and Michael (and my mom, occasionally) will be watching Violet, and I will get to be home with her while Michael is in school the rest of the week.

This past Tuesday and Wednesday, though, I had to attend training downtown so that I can perform the new work functions that I will have. My mom watched Violet on Tuesday, and Michael had her Wednesday. I was extremely anxious in the weeks leading up to it, as the longest I had ever been away from her before was MAYBE two hours. And in preparation for the Big Day, I have spent the last month staying up way too late every night in order to pump milk so that my little one wouldn't starve while I was away (thank GOODNESS she has always taken a bottle well).

To make a long story (and one that is probably interesting only to myself) short, it went great.

As in, she didn't cry at all, and I am not even entirely sure she even noticed I was gone. When I got home Tuesday, my mom said Violet got excited when she heard my voice, but there was no tearful reunion, reproachful looks, or desperation to nurse. Sure, she was happy, but just about as happy as she gets when I leave the room and return after a two minute absence.

Wednesday was Michael's first solo day with her, and it went off without a hitch as well. Lots of long walks and good ol' fashioned daddy time (and boy does that little girl love her daddy!).

Violet even napped both days (a feat I can never manage with her unless she is attached to me, if you know what I mean).

So, first off, an ENORMOUS thanks to my mom for watching Violet (and for the other million things she does every day for me and everyone else). And kudos to Michael for doing such a terrific job (not that I had my doubts--he is an amazing dad, which is why I married the man).

And I have to say that, while I am not exactly looking forward to it, I am now no longer dreading returning to work.

And no, no pictures right now. I have to find my camera cord to upload some pictures. So sorry. In all honesty, though, everyone says Violet looks exactly the same as she did four months ago, with the addition of her teeth.

OH! And in other exciting, Violet-centric news: she is on the verge of crawling! When we were in Disneyland a couple weeks ago, she started getting up on all fours for the first time. Since we've returned, she's done a couple crawls before collapsing, but she mostly either scoots along on her face, with her legs pushing, or she pulls herself forward with her hands. As with everything else she does, it is The Most Amazing Thing Ever and Absolutely Adorable. My baby is awesome.

I won!

So, I won that giveaway I posted about! I never win anything and so am SUPER excited. Here is a link to what my new house numbers will look like!

Sunday, October 9, 2011

Check out this blog!

My former college roommate has started a DIY blog which I have really been enjoying. Check her out at The Turquoise Piano. She is also doing a great giveaway with awesome handmade plaques (perfect for your front door, house address, or wherever your creative heart desires!).

On a personal note, I will hopefully post some pictures of Violet this week! She has her front two bottom teeth, and she has been using them with gusto.

Tuesday, August 23, 2011

Six months!


Violet is six months old today! While it seems to have gone by quickly, our childless lives seem an eternity ago.

Violet brings more and more joy to our lives each day. I never new how all-consuming love could be!

Violet has been eating (and LOVING) baby cereal for a month now, and within the last couple weeks we have added bananas and olive oil to her diet (she's got to put some weight on somehow!). She enjoys chewing on anything she can get her hands on, drinking from a cup, babbling VERY coherently, giggling, nursing pretty much constantly, "helping" mom feed herself cereal, sitting in her new Bumbo (best invention EVER), listening to "Popcorn Popping on the Apricot Tree," and looking at books and magazines. She is still sleeping magnificently at night and is now regularly sleeping 2-3 naps during the day (as long as mom is holding her, of course).

Violet, we are so glad to have you in our family! We love you!

Monday, August 22, 2011

Three Years!

Today we celebrated our 3rd anniversary. The time has flown by and yet brought so many changes to our lives: graduation, a move to California, new careers, a new house, two dogs (and countless other livestock), and, of course, our beautiful baby girl.

I have to say that I couldn't have gotten luckier when it comes to marriage. Michael is absolutely wonderful in every way and I couldn't be happier! He is an amazing husband, a hard worker, and the best dad EVER (and an amazing fisherman, as evidenced by the photo below, courtesy of Becky):

We celebrated by eating delicious Indian food al fresco at my parents' house while Grandma Linda watched the little one.

Michael, here's to another three years, and another three years after that, and another three years after that, and another...

Wednesday, June 15, 2011

Happy Birthday, Camryn!

Today is Camryn Karen Taylor's 3rd birthday! She's the troublemaker on the left. I wish we could be there to celebrate with this little Golden Child, but reunions shall have to wait until October.

Camryn, the humans, canines, and assorted fowl from this household wish you a very happy birthday!

Sunday, June 12, 2011

Updates

Violet has had a few "firsts" this past week. On June 7th, she giggled when I tickled her. It is so fun hearing these first real laughs of hers! And the next night she held up a bottle all on her own! She isn't super steady with it yet, but I was just impressed she could hold it.

She is also getting quite adept at grabbing onto things and manipulating them. It's pretty darn cute.

On the 9th, I ventured downtown with her to run some errands. I had to provide my work with a copy of her birth certificate, which meant I had to go to South Sac and get a copy of her birth certificate, in person. Everyone at work just loved her, of course, and it was so great to see everyone again. Even though it has only been 3.5 months, I feel like working full-time was another lifetime. It was pretty surreal going back in.

Afterward, I headed over to a co-worker's house. She is also on maternity leave and had her little boy 6 weeks after Violet was born. They sure had fun together, and immediately grabbed each other's hands when we put them next to each other:

Beau is 6 weeks younger but 3 lbs. heavier. I worry about Violet being too thin and Shannon worries about Beau being too chubby. I guess mothers always worry!

On the 10th, Violet sucked her thumb for the very fist time (as opposed to shoving her whole fist in her mouth). Today she even amazed us all by sucking BOTH thumbs at once!

And for the most amazing feat, Violet ROLLED OVER from her back to her tummy today while at Grandma's house! What a star! I will try to grab pictures of her next time she does it.

The Apple of My Eye

Every day, I feel like I love Violet with every cell in my body and couldn't possibly love her any more than I already do.

And yet the next day, I find that I love her even more.


I am so thrilled and grateful to be the mother of such a precious little girl.

And feel humbled that Heavenly Father has entrusted to me the care of one of his beloved children.

I hope and pray that I can be worthy of such trust and try to better myself each day so that Violet has the mother she deserves.





















New Additions!

Two weeks ago, we brought home a couple of chickens to join the Bragonje homestead. They are named Pepper (pictured below) and Daisy:

They sure are cute! The follow us around in the yard and even come clucking up to the back door. They are super soft, very sociable, and generally delightful. During the day, they hang out in the old dog house that was here when we bought the house, under the trees, on the retaining wall, or under the quail hutch. They spend their nights in a chicken coop Michael built from scrap lumber and parts we had from our many construction projects. Way to go Michael!

The dogs haven't quite adjusted to them yet, but I'm sure they'll come around.

Bring home the chickens got me thinking about all of the animals Michael and I have owned since getting married in August 2008:

Names: Nicodemus (Nick) and Maximilian (Max)
Species:
Hooded rats
Origins: Joined us shortly after we were married. We really wanted pets, and they were all we could have in the place we were living at the time.
Status: Died December 2009 and February 2010.
Cause of Death
: We suspect it was some tainted food we had fed them. R.I.P.

Name: Penelope
Species: Black lab/border collie
Origins: Joined our family October 10, 2009 as an 8-week-old rescue puppy. We closed on our house on the 9th, and we just couldn't wait to get a dog.
Status: Living

Name: Phoebe
Species: Black lab/shepherd
Origins: Joined our family April 24, 2010 as a 10-week-old rescue puppy. I was at the Loomis Earth Day celebration on my way home when I saw the rescue group setting up. Who could pass up an adorable black lab puppy?
Status: Living

Names: n/a
Species: Long-haired cats
Origins: Penelope found a litter of 2-week-old kittens in the bushes at my parents' house. The were these adorable little black balls of fur.We brought them home and managed to trap the mother the next day.
Status: Adopted. We kept them in our bathroom for a couple of weeks or so before finding a shelter that would adopt them out. We just didn't have time or space for 7 cats and 2 dogs.

Names: n/a
Species: Japanese quail
Origins: They joined us August 2010 (an acquisition from some local Russians)
Status: Of the original 4 females and 2 males, 2 females and 1 male are currently living. With the warm weather, they have started laying eggs again!
Cause of Death: 1) Natural causes, 2) Phoebe mistaking one for a chew toy after it escaped the hutch, and 3) pecked to death*. R.I.P.

*Poultry, in general, can be pretty violent. You want to be careful about introducing new birds to an existing flock, and if any birds have wounds, the other birds can go kind of crazy on them.

Names: Pepper and Daisy
Species: Silky/frizzle hens
Origins: Joined out happy home on Sunday, May 29, 2011. A woman in Lincoln was moving and couldn't take these beauties with her, so she gave them away, free to a good home.
Status: Living.

There you have it folks. In our next house, we hope to add sheep or goats to the list, and maybe a couple of cats. And rabbits would be fun. Oh, and how about...

Monday, May 30, 2011

Someone's listening...

I just have to say that prayers ARE answered.

Two experiences:

1) A few days ago, I wanted take pictures for some far-away aunts and grandparents. Unfortunately, my camera battery was dead, so I plugged it in to recharge it. Well, I remembered taking the battery out of the charger but could not find it anywhere. And I looked. Everywhere. I felt like I was losing my mind. Finally, I said a desperate prayer that I would find the battery (as much for the sake of my sanity as for the battery itself). Not a minute passed before the thought popped into my head, "Weren't you wearing your robe when you took the battery out of the charger?" Sure enough, I went to my closet, felt in my robe pocket, and presto chango--there was the missing battery.

2) Today, I remarked to Michael how it would be nice if Violet would nap for even just 45 minutes. I could get SO much done in 45 minutes! Well, today Violet fell asleep in my arms, I transferred her to Michael's, and she slept almost precisely 45 minutes (during which I cleaned and finished a frame refurbishing and picture hanging project I have been itching to do).

Are either of these experiences earth-shattering or life-changing? Nope. But they definitely re-affirmed that someone IS listening and He cares about the small stuff, too.

Sunday, May 29, 2011

Mama's girl


Michael joked while I was pregnant that Violet was already a daddy's girl. I went along with the joke, secretly jealous and fearing it was true, and just hoped Violet would save a little love for her mama.

Well, as any mother could tell you, I need not have feared. At least for the time being, Violet is totally a mama's girl. That child NEEDS to be near me or attached to me AT ALL TIMES (my mom says it's because she wants to be near the food source). She doesn't sleep during the day unless I am nursing her or have finished nursing her but am still holding her. Daddy* will not do, I'm afraid, and forget trying to put her in her crib.

Don't get me wrong--I LOVE my daughter and cherish the time I get to be home with her. However, I wouldn't mind if she would be content to at least spend a little of her unconscious time in arms other than my own. So that I don't have to type these blog posts one-handed.

*Violet loves her daddy, of course. Any pictures of her smiling are her smiling at Michael. She just really, really loves her mother's arms. And boobs.

Sunday best!


Friday, May 27, 2011

3 months old!

Violet was 3 months old on Monday. It's weird how it feels like we've always had her, and yet 3 months seems to have gone by so quickly.

Violet is still a good night sleeper, but stubbornly refuses to nap longer than 15 minutes at a time. She is a chatty little girl who loves it when people coo and gurgle back at her. She is very sweet and seems to know to be good when her mom needs to take her on solo errands. For the folks who aren't lucky enough to see her all the time, here are some recent pictures of our darling. These first pictures were taken 5/25/2011:






These next few were taken 5/26/2011, in a fabulous dress made by Aunt Melinda:




Finally, these pictures were taken today (5/27/2011):





Tuesday, May 3, 2011

2 months old!

Megan informed me that I have been neglecting my duties as a blogging mother and need to post updates about Violet. Well, dear Megan, to hear is to obey. Without further ado, pictures of a 2 month old Violet (who is actually 10 weeks as of tomorrow, but I don't know that any of these pictures are that recent):From March 10, 2011 (16 days old)


From March 11, 2011 (17 days old)


From April 2, 2011 (1 mo. 10 days)

From April 17, 2011 (1 mo. 25 days)

From April 27, 2011 (2 mo. 4 days)

From April 27, 2011 (2 mo. 4 days)

Violet is a happy baby and started smiling with great regularity around 5-6 weeks. A couple weeks ago, she began trying out laughing as well. She has always been a good night-time sleeper, with 4-5 hour stretches as soon as we brought her home from the hospital. Around 6 weeks, she started sleeping 6-8 hours through the night, and the last few days she has been sleeping about 9 hours straight! We are very grateful and relieved, especially as she is not one for napping during the day. My mom says I can't complain, so I won't :)

She is a very active and intense baby. She can move herself around on the floor (she slides around on her back by pushing her legs against the floor), and she is eager to sit up and stand if we support her. She loves playing piano with her daddy, going for rides on the dogs, and her favorite song is "I Feel Pretty" from Westside Story. She also loves smiling at mommy and herself in the mirror.

As of her 2 month appointment on April 25th, she is 23 inches long (76th percentile), 11 lbs. 2 oz (46th percentile), and her head is 15 inches around (49th percentile).

I am completely infatuated with our little princess, and I will try to be more regular about updating the blog. As soon as I can figure out how to get pictures off my phone, I will put up more pictures of her smiling, eating her fists, and other magnificent feats.